Realized the other day that I can say guess I am the boss and act on it or just be silent because she and I both know I am the boss in certain areas. It works for us and she appreciates knowing I am going to wrap my hands in her hair and kiss her hard on the mouth. It is not a question of if, but when because some things aren't stopped, they are just placed on hold and I am tired of the elevator music. ;)
"When you're in jail, a good friend will be trying to bail you out. A best friend will be in the cell next to you saying, 'Damn, that was fun'." — Groucho Marx